In simple day-to-day conversation people lose their cool in no time. One loses one’s cool because of one’s own self and not because of the other, though each throws the blame on the other. An intelligent and Spiritually Awakened person understands this fact very well and invariably remains away from such kind of undesirable and avoidable hostility, either remaining neutral or taking the blame on himself.
Today the greatest problem in the world, among friends, in family and between husband and wife is the lack of communication and miscommunication . An intelligent and Spiritually Awakened person gives concession to others for their deficiency. Most people don’t mean what they say AND are unable to say what they mean.
You can make enemies everyday or withdraw and take pity on others, the choice is yours.